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Question 1 of 6
Which of these would you guess most accurately reflects Dan Wile's research?
Compromise is necessary
Compromise is a solution
Compromise is a solution AND a problem
Compromise is why the divorce rate isn't higher!
Question 2 of 6
Spouses often appear selfish because
of a character flaw
being raised as an only child OR as a favorite child
they don't know how to give
because they feel they have already given "too" much
Question 3 of 6
Compromising is best understood as
a gamble that may or may not pay off
a way to get your way next time
a mindless, automatic response that most partners make to please their partners or to at least not have a fight
a sure bet for strengthening a marriage
Question 4 of 6
There are no good ways to "be selfish" in a marriage.
True
False
Question 5 of 6
Unrealistic expectations (fantasies) cause many problems in marriages, but so does...
forgetting your fantasies
talking too much
saving too much
sleeping too much
Question 6 of 6
Many partners do not believe that
it's possible to talk about unmet fantasies, wishes without accusing your partner of not meeting them
it is possible to listen to your partner's unmet fantasies/wishes and not feel defensive about not meeting them.
it's okay to have outrageous, unfulfilled fantasies
that a First Class Marriage is possible
selection of partner makes a difference